The Reveal

Watch Davey and friends discuss The Reveal on Himeros LIVE , our weekly podcast. Discover why Davey created The Reveal on the Himeros.tv blog . This is a pre-sex ritual designed to enhance the emotional fueling of desire by sharing small personally vulnerable revelations. It is scalable, because it can be done with a playful casual sex buddy or even with our deepest partners. The scalability would be experienced in the level of vulnerability being revealed. Obviously, in a casual sex situation, one may not divulge his deepest fear or insecurity, but would still have plenty to offer the moment. The important lesson that this game teaches is that being emotionally transparent greatly enhances the sexual experience and can act as an aphrodisiac, if we allow space for it. In sex, we have often been conditioned to bring only parts of ourselves to certain men or parts of ourselves to sex, itself. We often rely on what “works,” what feels safe, and what makes us feel like rock stars. There ar